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Impossible to Forgive

And forgive us our debts,

As we forgive our debtors.

Matthew 6:12


But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.

Matthew 6:16


Forgiveness is necessary to go to Heaven, yes. But forgiveness is a choice, not a feeling. Regardless of how you feel, if you choose to forgive, just say the words, and say it aloud if you have to, "I forgive him." Like how Erika Kirk did it. It is unimaginably difficult but so necessary for your sake, not his. He wouldn't even know. 


In fact, if you do not forgive him, you're only hurting yourself and risking your own salvation. Why give him more than you need to? He's already destroyed your past, don't let him destroy your future. If you want to heal, say the words, redeem your salvation, and don't give him another inch.


Forgiveness is not saying he is innocent or that it never happened or that you weren't affected. Forgiveness means you are not allowing anymore of what has happened to dictate how you will live your life from now on. Forgiveness means you have overcome and have moved on. Forgiveness truly defines what Christianity is all about. Forgiveness means we don't need anymore of it and have let it go.


After you say those words, get water baptised again if you have to. You're a whole new person and you've a whole new life ahead of you. That unforgiving and bitter victim is gone -- you are free to live a brand new life -- you are a totally different person from that person who was victimised. She was traumatized and a victim but you are a victor. You are a newborn.

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