Contrary to modern day Christianity, when it comes to God's will for a life partner, I strongly suggest some serious fasting, not just from coffee like a lot of youngsters do nowadays but from food, electronics, social life and going out. Just take time off for a week to lock yourself in the room and only go out of the room to drink water or to the toilet. I would seriously pray about this because it's a lifelong decision and the second most important decision in our lives (the first being our salvation). In fact, during that time off, I even suggest not taking to each other until that period of fasting is over so as not to be too bias or affected emotionally. If God says no, breaking up is most difficult. My sister did this and realized it was not God's will and had to break up with a guy she was with for 7 years and it was awful.
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