POV: Your husband comes home expecting the house to be clean -- you, a stay at home mom with kids under five find this exhausting, overwhelming and husband, demanding. You start wandering why you are responsible for cleaning everything. Then, start demanding for.. your rights... My answer: First of all, the heart. Always the heart. If you were a non-Christian, it wouldn't matter. But you are a Christian couple, so we have to see the Jesus side of things. So first off, we deal with the heart. I see where you are coming from, but then again. I also see the hurt, the disappointment and the feeling that this is really unfair. That marriage and basically this whole world is screwed up. It's not. It is culture and expectation that is. From the beginning, God made us equal, so it has always been fair. Now we move on to what went wrong.. No expectation, no disappointment. On both sides. The wife is the woman of the house. Adam was created outside the garden while Eve was created inside...