There has to be a balance. Taking care of the business is taking care of your husband but you do not have to choose between one or the other. Your job doesn't depict who you are. Remain humble inside especially towards your husband. It is a challenge but with God's grace, you can do this. He needs you. Being feminine has nothing to do with the outer appearance but the heart. And nobody can take that away from you.
This verse is for you:
Jeremiah 31:22
For the Lord has created a new thing in the earth— A woman shall encompass a man.”
Encompass means to protect.
I married my employee. My husband was working for me but God called us into a marriage. While I prayed for His will, God told me that if there should be any arguments that arise, it is my fault because of my pride. Because I was older (4 years), I had a master's degree while he only had a diploma (I have a doctorate now), I ran a company (he was my employee), I was better in English (it was his second language), I was from the city (he was from a regional area), my parents were pastors (his were leaders under my parent's leadership), etc. I had a thousand reasons to be prideful.
There may come a time for you to step back but perhaps the time is not now. But if there is something slipping away inside you, that is not right either. Especially if it involves you missing your children because they're not going to be kids forever. I propose to bring your family into your business world rather than leave them at home. Have a place for your family in your office.
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