Question:
Help. Hubby picks on me and says I need to lose weight. He doesn't compliment me or pay any attention to me. He wants a vec but I want more kids. What should I do?
Answer:
Don't focus on the negative. Focus on the positive. If you want to pick on all the reasons why you should break up, there will be plenty. Start counting on the reasons to keep this marriage. There will be equally much if not more.
Marriage is hard work. From both sides. And more than not, you will always feel like you're on the side that does all the work.
The Bible says that our body does not belong to us. And being on the heavy side is not good for health either. There's nothing to lose losing weight but weight.
Don't take it personally. To cut the long story short, you're trying to say that your hubby is not into you. I'm not saying he is. You could be right. But that's because marriage takes work. When you plant a seed, it grows. But you need to water it. Work means you have to do something that will draw him to you and please him. If you have a problem with pleasing your husband, there might be something you need to deal with in your heart.
Marriage is not just hard work but suffering too. Love is long suffering. So marriage is long suffering.
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