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One sided relationships

Been there. It hurts and you wish it didn't. She's moved on but what you've got is an imagination of a potential that there might be something there for you but there really isn't and no, she's not going to change her mind about you. There's zero chance.


You might even lose her as a friend. That's sad, too. The truth is things will never be the same again.


Yes, you've got to let her go, both as a potential and a friend. That's love. To love a person so much, that you would let them go and be free to love someone they really do love, even if that person is not you.


I don't usually say this, but go find a game you like to play, get some dopamine and enjoy yourself. She's gone.


Also, depending on how long you have been close, that's how long it usually takes to get over it... 

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