Disrespectful Spouse

 Forgiveness is long-suffering.

There's nothing you can do but keep praying and hope to see the change. On your part, do nothing disrespectful towards your spouse. Do not treat him the way he treats you. We are not mirrors of our husband. We are mirrors of Christ.

In one ear, out the other, and out the window. Take nothing personally and definitely do not take anything to heart. Forgive 77X7, with long-suffering and perseverance. 

Do not blame yourself for anything. We are not fighting flesh and blood but principalities and powers, rulers of darkness. 

Talk to Jesus. He will turn all the negativity into positivity. He will turn the "You're so dumb," into "I made you brilliant," and "You are a lousy mother" into "nobody can do a better job than you".