Q: What to do with an unhelpful hubby other than divorce? A: No expectation, no disappointment. I like that you're a fighter and not giving into this world's cancel culture. Women these days just prefer 'Game Over' and 'Restart' with someone else. That's not real life. And that's not the right thing to do. Family is family. We don't leave family. No matter what. In a marriage, rarely do any couples really get along. So give yourself a pat on the back. But if I've learned anything, it's that without expectations, there are no disappointments. If we decide to divorce our husbands, we would be single moms anyway. So sometimes I just live like a single mom without having to divorce my husband. It's totally fine -- if single moms can do it, I can do it. It's mainly a paradigm shift. Guys take longer to mature. We are not their moms -- they are not for us to correct.
What is the purpose of earth if Christians could just die immediately and go straight to Heaven? Christianity is not about dying and going to Heaven. If it was, he wouldn't even have created earth in the first place. Why did God create us? Because He wanted children to have a relationship with Him. But He also gave us dominion over the earth so that His will will be done on earth as it is in Heaven. This world is our responsibility. We need to have dominion and establish His kingdom here.