Have been living with my parents since day one. They're pastors and I've had a call of God to be the Elisha to my parents, so we are not planning to leave them ever. They now have health issues and I take them to the drs often. Mom is sometimes on a wheelchair if she's tired. She's a diabetic and Dad has heart issues. They don't mind the kids as some people think living with parents would be like. They're old and tired and can't have the kids too long but that's not what grandparents are for. They're not here to help around the house. I am here to help them. And if you have that mindset from day one, it's all good.
It's not up to either of you nor is it our place to advice you. You both need to pray and seek the Lord for guidance on this. The Lord has led us as a family from one place to another. There is a time to move and there is a time to stay put. Ask the Lord for guidance. Also, submission to your husband and saving your marriage is more important than money. How to Pray: Both of you, go to a room, whether alone or together, close your eyes, ask God to give you guidance on whether to move or stay, and ask Him for a book, chapter and verse. Then wait for it with eyes closed. Wait for the book, chapter number and verse number. Read the whole chapter anyway, including the key verse. It's hard the first few times but you'll get it over time, do it everyday as devotion. Get a notebook or Google Drive to write down what God is saying. Then match your verse and understanding with his. After a few days, you kind of know where this is going.
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