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Non-Santa Christmas

 

Question:


As a Christian mom who is not doing “Santa” with her kids, how do you approach the topic with young children?


Answer:

The truth. Santa was a good guy many years ago who just wanted to give children presents, especially those who could not afford it. But after he passed away, instead of following his example to give unfortunate children presents like he did, children became obsessed with receiving presents from him instead, and plenty of folktale followed as if he lived in the North Pole with a bunch of elves, etc. so we must not get distracted with Santa during Christmas but remember that it is Jesus’ birthday, and don’t forget Santa’s example in giving presents to underprivileged children. Also, all the kids in my family give presents to each family member. So there’s a ton of presents every Christmas. Don’t need one from Santa. The best presents are from mommy and daddy or grandpa and grandma.


Each family member including kids gives a gift to each family member. Because the magic of Christmas is in giving, not receiving.


So 2 parents and 3 kids makes 25 presents. No need for Santa. We bought them and wrapped them. Santa doesn't take any credit. All that love is from us.

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